join the gentlest revolution you’ve ever seen

because it’s revolutionary to make changes without beating yourself up

Get on your own team.

This is like those Facebook Buy Nothing groups where neighbors gather to to trade trash for treasure and make their houses more functional in the process ;)

Your brain drama might feel like trash you need to clear out, and in the process of getting coached, the insights you gain will be treasures for everyone dealing with the same kind of clutter!

Your presence is your gift to me. My tips, tools, and perspective shifts are my gifts to you 💕

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You never have to get private coaching to make progress because you can learn so much from hearing how other people’s brains work (very much like yours), but if you want to talk about something with fewer eyes on you, it’s there for you at 30% off

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Gifty Gathering Core Four
Self coaching
Honesty with self
Listening to your inner voice
Catching toxic positivity aka lying to your brain
Owning your desires and passions (larger scale)

Intentional choices (in the day to day)
What do I want to think
What do I want to feel
What do I want to do

Doing the thing
Self-trust
I can trust myself to not beat me up
I can trust myself to roll with the punches
My past self was for real doing her best

Self-faithfulness
What I say matters
What I want matters
My past self is not an idiot for deciding what I'm supposed to be doing, even if I don't like how it feels right now

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What does this look like in real life?

You take seriously the idea that your presence is a gift and choose to actively use your voice and speak up in the group instead of blending in. You comment on posts saying what you like about them, you ask questions instead of assuming it doesn't matter that you're confused, you share your life experience and what's worked for you and what hasn't, and then one day... You find yourself sharing your opinion in Bible study. You find yourself asking your boss to clarify something they just said instead of figuring it doesn't matter that you feel out of the loop. You tell your friends/partner where you actually want to go for dinner.
You take time to enjoy your investment by really reading through and putting into practice the how-to's and new thoughts to think, and you change enough tiny habits in your daily life that it feels like home instead of hurry up - you take time to rest when you need it, work when you need to. You give yourself permission to watch a movie without trying to multitask. You don't have to stress because you know exactly when things are going to get done. You catch yourself when you're falling into unhelpful patterns because you have names for the patterns and know exactly how they feel.
You become allergic to shame because I call it out in every post in the Facebook group 😅 you start noticing it in children's books, podcasts, conversations, and eliminate it from your vocabulary (as far as you can tell) so that people can feel safe with you. You find yourself less scared of trying and failing at the things that seemed so far out of reach because you know you're not going to shame yourself if you get it wrong.
You get more familiar with the reasons why you get stuck - the times your brain is just trying to keep itself safe in ways that are actually working against you. You develop your kind leadership voice so that when your lower brain starts spiraling about how the things you want are going to take too long, be too much work, tick too many people off, you can contain the drama, take good care of your whole "team" (including the part that's freaking out) and get stuff done anyway.